# Embracing Life at 36: 36 Lessons Learned and Shared
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Chapter 1: A Special Milestone
Today, I celebrate my 36th birthday, a momentous occasion that brings a mix of excitement and reflection. This year holds a unique significance as it's the first since I decided to leave my job. Gone are the days of reporting to bosses and juggling spreadsheets—now I enjoy the freedom of managing my own time, a luxury that has transformed my perspective.
"In the chaos of back-to-back meetings, clarity often gets lost. The absence of free time can warp our perception of time itself."
The first lesson I've learned is that true freedom comes from complete ownership of your time.
Use financial resources to gain time rather than material goods.
Obsession fuels self-motivation
Every day, I find myself consumed with thoughts of writing. The thrill of crafting stories keeps me awake at night, reminiscent of YouTuber Mr. Beast's early days in his career.
Obsession is often undervalued; when you’re truly passionate, the pressure to find purpose fades, leaving only the joy of the activity itself.
A cautionary tale about alcohol
Alcohol is often seen as a social lubricant, but I've learned it can be quite the opposite. It robs your energy and leads to dehydration, which in turn can affect your skin and mental clarity.
The best decision I made was to give up drinking and increase my water intake.
Writers write continuously
Creativity flourishes when energy is abundant. Platforms may change, but the commitment to create remains constant.
Wealth doesn’t guarantee happiness
While money can afford you more time to pursue passions, it doesn't inherently bring joy.
The fears of parenthood
Welcoming a child into the world is daunting. The medical warnings and societal judgments can be overwhelming. Yet, it’s these challenges that prompt the most personal growth.
True friendship shines in adversity
After experiencing a profound loss, a dear friend appeared unannounced, offering support without being asked. Treasure those who show up in your moments of need; they are the unsung heroes of your life.
Writing as a therapeutic outlet
Transferring thoughts onto a page can be transformative. It offers clarity and can even assist others who may resonate with your experiences.
Daily posts on social media can be a strategic advantage
Building a successful career often hinges on consistency. Engaging on platforms like Twitter opens doors to new opportunities, allowing for creative expression.
Living under flight paths can be stressful
After moving to a new home, I quickly discovered the downsides of living beneath a flight path. The constant noise can elevate stress levels and detract from the tranquility of home.
A polished online presence is essential
Updating my Zoom background has made a significant difference in how I present myself in virtual meetings. Investing in appearance, especially in the online business realm, is crucial.
Scheduling fosters productive habits
When writing sessions are marked on the calendar, they become an ingrained part of your routine, leading to increased output.
Pursuing passion eliminates Monday blues
Engaging in work you love transforms how you feel about Mondays. It's essential to recognize and cherish such opportunities.
Rethink reading habits
This year, I've opted to read fewer books but focus on those that truly enrich my understanding. Slower reading allows for deeper comprehension and reflection.
Beware of distractions like TikTok
With the rise of platforms like TikTok, attention spans are at risk. Short, addictive videos can hinder your ability to focus. Reading books instead can foster a better mindset.
Consider self-employment
Taking the leap into self-employment isn’t for everyone, but it’s a risk worth exploring. Even failures can yield invaluable lessons.
Reflecting on the past two years
The global pandemic provided an opportunity for introspection and growth. While it was a challenging time, many emerged with newfound wisdom and readiness to create a brighter future.
Express gratitude daily
A simple practice of sharing gratitude with your partner can deepen your connection and shift your perspective on daily annoyances.
The benefits of a business partner
After several unsuccessful attempts to start an online academy, partnering with someone made all the difference. Collaboration often paves the way for success.
Resilience in the face of failure
Embracing setbacks is part of the journey. Persistence ultimately leads to finding what you’re searching for.
Prioritize walking
Incorporating walks into your daily routine can enhance creativity and mental clarity, making it an essential practice for anyone in a demanding profession.
Invest in quality audio equipment
A good microphone can elevate your presence and perception in conversations, adding to your credibility.
Understanding your psychology as an investor
Managing fear in investing can reveal a lot about your mindset. Embracing challenges and seeking knowledge can lead to greater financial success.
Acknowledging your weaknesses
Recognizing your limitations can foster humility, which is vital for genuine growth and success.
Budget for learning
Continuously investing in your education through online courses can significantly enhance your skills and knowledge.
The challenges of moving
The moving process can be a hassle, but it’s often the real estate market that complicates things further.
Recognizing the cult-like nature of interests
From Bitcoin to politics, many pursuits resemble cults. Find what resonates with you and embrace it.
Supporting others on their journey
Mentoring those on the rise can be immensely rewarding. Offering guidance can create a sense of fulfillment.
Opportunities are abundant, not saturated
In the digital realm, there’s always room for quality. Persistence and high standards can set you apart from the competition.
Networking can feel transactional
Instead of networking, focus on building genuine friendships.
Innovative solutions emerge from crises
Solutions to pressing global issues often arise from unforeseen innovations.
Selfishness limits opportunities
Practicing selflessness can lead to unexpected opportunities.
Reevaluating your priorities
If time is an issue, it’s essential to reassess your priorities and motivations.
The solitude of online business
Leaving a traditional workplace can feel isolating. Schedule regular meet-ups to reconnect with colleagues and friends.
Prepare for tax responsibilities
Setting aside funds for taxes can prevent unpleasant surprises come tax season.
You have the power to redefine your life
Many societal rules are negotiable. Challenge what you think is possible and pursue your desires with determination.
Cheers to another year on this journey!
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